Thursday, January 19, 2017
Edward B. Gill of Westport died Jan.15 at home. He was 91.
Born in Rockville, Connecticut on May 25, 1925, he was the son of Andrew Stanley Gill and Bernice Sophia Gill (nee Baron).
A World War II veteran, he served as a 2nd Lieutenant in the 242 Army Air Force Base Unit as lead navigator for the 730th Bomb Squadron in the 452nd Bomb Group of the 8th Air Force. He flew 17 missions from Deopham Green Airfield in England. After the war he served in the Air Reserve until 1961.
He graduated from the University of Connecticut with a B.S. from the College of Agriculture and received a Master’s in education from the University of Bridgeport.
Estelle “Stascia” Reitano of Westport died Jan. 12 at Maplewood Senior Living in Norwalk. She was 92.
She was born in Haydenville, Massachusetts, grew up in Glen Cove, New York, and moved to Bridgeport in her early teens.
She was a graduate of Bassick High School in Bridgeport, and became a registered nurse after graduating from Norwalk Hospital School of Nursing -– a lifelong vocation and core part of her identity.
She served in the Army Cadet Corps during World War II and spent many years as a school and public health nurse in Westport, along with acting as an enthusiastic Troop Leader for the Girl Scouts. During the school year break, she spent many summers as the camp nurse at Camp Kennebec in Maine.
Wednesday, January 18, 2017
An overflow crowd today attended the funeral of Westporter John Skinner, former airline pilot and a founder of the Builders Beyond Borders charity, at the Southport Congregational Church. He died Jan. 13 at age 80. (See WestportNow Jan. 16, 2017) Said son Chris Skinner: “My father had a blue collar attitude and wore the white shirt of professionalism. He was a man’s man, a regular guy.” (CLICK TO ENLARGE) Dave Matlow for WestportNow.com
Lucia Nebel White of Westport, a noted photographer and longtime member of Westport’s arts community, died Jan. 14 at home following a brief illness. She was 93.
Active into her 90s, she was a member of the High Tide Club, a group of elderly residents who swim at Westport’s Burying Hill Beach. She made it a point to swim there every day in all but the most inclement weather.
She was born April 19, 1923 in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. Her father, Berthold Nebel, a Beaux-Arts sculptor, was born in Basil, Switzerland and came to the United States at age 1. Her mother, Maria Lucantoni, was born in Anticoli Corardo, Italy. They met at the American Academy in Rome, where Berthold had studied on a fellowship and where Maria was a model.
Lucia lived in Pittsburgh for four years while her father taught at the School of Sculpture at the Carnegie Institute of Technology, now Carnegie Mellon University.
Tuesday, January 17, 2017
Lynn Beinfield of Colorado Springs, Colorado, a former Westport resident, died Jan. 1 at Baylor Hospital in Dallas, Texas while undergoing treatment for leukemia. She was 67.
Born in Brooklyn, New York on Feb. 8, 1949, she was a daughter of Marjorie and Malcolm Beinfield. Malcolm Beinfield, who died in 2006 at age 84, was a well-known, longtime Westport surgeon. Marjorie, a social worker at Norwalk Hospital, died in March 2016 at age 90.
The Beinfield family moved to Westport in 1951 where Lynn graduated from Staples High School in 1967. She was a graduate of Antioch College, and SUNY Downstate College of Medicine, where her father and her grandfathers, Henry Beinfield and Harry Koster, had gone before her.
She practiced psychiatry in Newtown before moving to Colorado.
Eleanor (Bickie) Shull of Westport died Jan. 11. She was 91.
A Westport resident for 60 years, she was born in Montclair, New Jersey, the daughter of Harriet Parsons and Ralph M. Watt.
She graduated from Smith College where she was elected to Phi Beta Kappa in her junior year, and also to Sigma Xi, a national honorary scientific society.
She had been an illustrator for children’s magazines, advertising manager/art director, copy editor, and most recently a painter.
Ernest “Ernie” I. Arnow of Westport, a World War II veteran, longtime Norwalk dentist, and former member of Westport’s Representative Town Meeting (RTM), died Jan. 15 at home. He was 92.
The husband of Elaine Walkoff Arnow was born, July 6, 1924 in Bronx, N.Y., the son of Samuel and Sadie Arnow.
He attended the Bronx High School of Science and then served in the U.S. Army during World War II in the Medical Corps in the Pacific. He proudly participated in Westport Memorial Day parades over the years.
He attended New York University (NYU) undergraduate school and NYU Dental School. He practiced dentistry in Norwalk for more than 50 years.
Stephanie (Cohen) Miller of California, a former Westport resident, died Nov. 22, 2016. She was 78.
She was born on March 21, 1938 to Edith and Reverend Phillip Cohen. She grew up in London and then married Laurence Miller and relocated to the United States.
She was an educator and strong advocate for children with learning challenges. She created a series of tales about Pierre, a dog lost in London and Paris, to assist the students she tutored in reading comprehension. Unfortunately, shedied before she had an opportunity to publish any of her work.
She was loved by many - especially her children Alan and Janet Miller, as well as her four grandchildren, Connor, Tyler, Ben and Sean. She moved from Westport, CT to Mill Valley to be closer to her family. She had a close attachment to her British roots and was an active member of the Daughter’s of the British Empire.
Monday, January 16, 2017
John Carl Skinner of Westport died Jan. 13 at St. Vincent’s Medical Center in Bridgeport as a result of injuries suffered from a fall the day after Christmas. He was 80.
He was born in San Jose, California on March 22, 1936. He was adopted at age 6 by Cleo and Lempi Amanda Koivunen Skinner, and later at age 12 by Gladys May Skinner, following the death of Amanda.
He grew up in Sacramento and joined the Navy at age 18 where he served as a fighter pilot for 12 years. He met his future wife, Jeri Ann Hatch, at the Officers’ Club at Moffett Field in Sunnyvale, California.
They were married on July 5, 1959. They had two sons, Christian Carl born on Feb. 9, 1960 and Craig Steven born exactly two years later, on Feb. 9, 1962.
A memorial service for Glenn Hightower, longtime Westport educator who died Jan. 1 at age 76, will be held Saturday, his family said today.
The service will take place at United Methodist Church of Westport and Weston, 49 Weston Road, at 2 p.m. (See family-supplied obituary appended to the WestportNow obituary, WestportNow, Jan. 4, 2017)
In lieu of flowers, the family asks to consider a donation to the following organizations that will make an impact on people’s lives in a local community:
Wednesday, January 11, 2017
Lois H. Roehr, a longtime resident of Westport and Weston, died in September. She was 84.
Born in New York, she grew up in St. Albans and studied at Queens College CUNY, majoring in Latin American studies. After graduation, she worked at the Benrus Watch Company in Manhattan while pursuing a Master’s degree.
She met her husband at a New Year’s party. They eloped sixth months later. They moved to Westport in the late 1960s and to Weston in the 90s.
She s tutored students for the English SAT, taught Spanish to adults and children, and worked as a freelance editor and translator. She also substituted in the Westport public schools.
Christopher Byron of Weston, a former Westport resident, prizewinning business journalist and New York Times best-selling author, died Jan. 7 at Bridgeport Hospital following a long illness. He was 72.
Byron’s career in business journalism spanned over 40 years, including editor positions at both Time and Forbes and contributing editor for publications such as Esquire, Playboy, Men’s Health, and Worth.
From 1995 to 2000, his “Back of the Envelope” column in the New York Observer exposed the swindlers and con artists from Wall Street to Silicon Valley.
He then wrote a weekly column for Bloomberg News and a column for the New York Post, and he wrote for TheStreet.com, all about similar subjects.
Sunday, January 08, 2017
Nat Hentoff, a free-thinking columnist and author who maintained a home in Westport for more than 30 years, died Jan 7 at his Manhattan apartment. He was 91.
His son, Tom Hentoff, said his father died from natural causes.
Hentoff was perhaps best known as a Village Voice contributor and columnist for 50 years. He also wrote for The New Yorker, The New York Times, Down Beat and the Wall Street Journal. His more than 25 books included jazz and First Amendment works, novels and memoirs.
Hentoff and his wife Margot purchased a home in Westport in 1972. They lived first at 21 Crooked Mile Road, then at 17 Darbrook Road, and then at the Lansdowne condominiums until 2006.
Galy Lapin Starzyk of Westport died Dec. 28 at home. She was 98.
She was born May 21, 1918 in Tuapse, Russia, daughter of the late Leonid B. and Olga Harrin Lapin. She came to the United States as a young girl and was employed at Sikorsky Aircraft in the early days of operation.
On April 30, 1944, she began her 71-year marriage to Michael L. Starzyk, raising son Paul and daughter Nona together. She also busied herself as a volunteer transporter at Norwalk Hospital and involvement with the Home Builders Association of Fairfield County.
In addition to her parents and husband, she was predeceased by a brother, Vitaly Lapin; son Paul and Paul’s “spiritual wife” Joyce Graham. Survivors include daughter Nona Starzyk of Danbury; granddaughters Rebecca Wilson with husband Stephen of Massachusetts and Rachael Wolff of Florida; great-grandchildren Andrew, Lily and Kyle Wilson of Massachusetts and Aidan and Alyssa Wolff in Florida; sister-in-law Gene Reale of Westport and several nieces and their families.
Friday, January 06, 2017
Renate W. Moss of Sandy Hook, a former employee of the Westport school system, died Jan. 3 at Danbury Hospital. She was 76.
She was born Aug. 9, 1940 in Landau, Germany, daughter of the late Michael and Walburga Harrer Gottfried. She met her husband, Edwin, overseas while he was serving in the Army, and returned with him to America to raise a family.
A longtime resident of Redding, she worked for the Westport public schools for 19 years until her retirement in 2003.
One of her greatest joys in life was being with her family, especially with her grandchildren and great-grandchild. She loved to sit in the sunshine with her morning coffee and a good book and enjoyed hearing birdsong in the spring and summer.
Thursday, January 05, 2017
Barbara J. Howard of Naples, Flordia, a former Westport resident, died Dec. 31 of complications from COPD. She was 79.
She was born Barbara Joyce Bethard on Oct. 28, 1937, in Litchfield, Illinois, daughter of Mildred McKee Bethard and Oral F. Bethard. She grew up in Barry, Illinois, where she attended Barry schools from first grade through high school, graduating as valedictorian of the class of 1955.
In high school, she and a girlfriend sang duets at school and at church, and were on the March of Dimes tour; they also won a talent contest on a local TV station. Among other activities, she was active in the school band (trombone and majorette), the 4H Club, and the Methodist Youth Fellowship. At graduation, she was given the American Legion “Good Citizenship” award.
She was awarded an academic scholarship to Illinois State University (then called Illinois State Normal University, a teachers’ college) where she attended one year, majoring in business education.
Wednesday, January 04, 2017
Glenn Hightower of Westport, who served three decades as principal at Bedford Junior High and Middle Schools and later as principal of Westport Adult and Continuing Education, died Jan. 1 at home. He was 76.
Known for his easy going manner, Hightower combined his love of teaching with his love of athletics.
A native of Oklahoma City, Glenn Edward Hightower, or Dr. Hightower as he became known to legions of Westporters, excelled in athletics through high school and at Oklahoma State University until a medical condition eventually ended his formal sports career, according to a profile published when he was honored in 2005 by the Sportsmen of Westport.
But he continued to be active, competing in area and national handball tournaments, running marathons, including the New York Marathon 15 times and 10 ultra (50-mile) marathons. It was routine for him to knock off eight to 10 miles before reporting to work and 20 to 25 miles on weekends.
Barend “Bart” van den Brink of West Hartford, a former Westport resident, died Jan. 1. He was 81.
The husband of Tonnie for 55 years was born in Rotterdam, Netherlands on Aug.16, 1935.
Besides his wife Tonnie, he is survived by his two children, their spouses, and his two granddaughters: his son Hans and wife Sheri of Georgia, and their daughter Bailea and husband Matthew of Texas; and his daughter Elisabeth, husband Nigel and their daughter Alexandra of West Hartford. He is also survived by two siblings: his sister Miep of Holland and brother John and wife Anneke of Holland.
He was defined by his great love for family, nature, animals and traveling. His last trip took him to Texas with family to attend his granddaughter’s wedding.
Adele (Tutino) Gazzelli of Westport died Dec. 31 at Norwalk Hospital. She was 88.
She was born in Brooklyn, New York on March 15, 1928 daughter of the late Bernardo and Carolina (Trifilitte) Tutino. She was a retired caterer. She was a longtime resident of Westport where she lived for 48 years.
She was a loving person who devoted her life to her husband and children. She enjoyed babysitting and playing with her grandchildren in her retirement. Adele loved to sing and introduced both grandchildren to music which developed into a passion for both of them.
She was preceded in death by her parents, husband John, and three brothers Santo, Joseph, and Hugo. She is survived by her sister Frances Lemanski, son Christopher, daughter Caroline Goldstein and her husband (Paul), two grandchildren Robert and Lia, and several nieces and nephews.
Tuesday, January 03, 2017
Eugenio “Gino” Mercuri of Norwalk, former owner of Andiamo’s Deli in Westport, died Jan. 1 in Norwalk Hospital. He was 57.
He was born Feb. 21, 1959 in Nicastro, Italy, the son of Giuseppe Mercuri of Norwalk.
He graduated from Norwalk High School in 1977 and went on to become a licensed hairdresser and for many years was the co-owner of Tony & Gino’s Hair Salon in New Canaan. He later pursued his passion for the culinary industry and went on to become owner of Andiamo’s Deli, 177 Post Road West, in Westport.
He had many passions; however his greatest enjoyment was his family, especially his granddaughter Mia. This past summer he fulfilled his dream of taking Mia to Disney World. He also enjoyed the company of his many friends.
Monday, January 02, 2017
Edna Mae Thomas Butner, formerly of Westport and Nantucket, Massachusetts, died Dec. 13 after a long battle with Alzheimer’s. She was 88.
She was born Sept. 24, 1928 in Negaunee, Michigan to Ira and Jennie Thomas. She attended Central Grammar School and graduated from Negaunee High School. She was a good student, and involved in her community, she was a Camp Fire Girl, as well as being part of many school clubs and organizations.
She attended Northern Michigan University until entering and graduating from Augustana Hospital School of Nursing in Chicago in 1950 as a registered nurse.
She met her future husband Edward in Long Beach, California and married him on Oct. 17, 1951. The couple moved to Westport where they lived their early years where they raised their three children.
Saturday, December 31, 2016
Antonio “Tony” Rodriguez of Key Biscayne, Florida, a former Westport resident, died Nov. 10 in Miami. He was 74.
He was born Aug. 12, 1942 in Camaguey, Cuba and left that country with his parents, brother and beloved pet dog seeking political asylum in 1961. The family relocated to Miami briefly before moving again to Denver, Colorado in 1962.
He completed his B.S. and M.S. in mathematics at the University of Denver. He met his first wife in Denver and went to work in business. The majority of his career was spent working for Xerox Corp. in the Latin American Division which allowed him to travel throughout Latin and South America as well as Europe and Asia.
His work also allowed the family to live in several states as well as for two years in Mexico City, Mexico. The family lived for the longest period of time in Westport, where their two children attended school.
Lynn Backalenick, who grew up in Westport, died Dec. 26 at Mt. Sinai Hospital, New York City. She was 65.
She graduated from Staples High School and attended Goddard College, moving on to a career in the graphic arts. She gained recognition as an art director in the audio-visual field.
Her vast array of friends will remember her warmth, her quick smile, her ready wit, and her loving nature. She touched the lives of many and will be missed greatly.
She is survived by her husband James Kendrick, her siblings Paul, Lisa, Kim, and her mother Irene of Bridgeport, a former longtime Westport resident and noted journalist, theater critic, and most recently, poet.
Friday, December 30, 2016
Lisa Ann Potts-Polito of Westport died Dec. 28 at Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center in New York. She was 50.
Born in Evergreen Park, Illinois on Aug. 30, 1966, she was raised in South Holland and Crete, Illinois. A leader in the hospitality industry, she was most recently senior vice president of sales and marketing for Trump Hotels and was previously a longtime senior executive at Starwood Hotels.
She was predeceased by her parents, Richard Austin Potts and Anne Marie (Byrnes) Potts. She is survived by her husband, Vincent T. Polito; her siblings, Dr. Steven Potts of Chicago and Susan Kluskowski of Stillwater, Minnesota; nephews Jacob and Nicholas Kluskowski of Minneapolis; brother-in-law Mario Gonzalez and sister-in-law Janet Polito of Yarmouthport, Massachusetts; brother-in-law Robert Polito and sister-in-law Janice Bicchieri of Baltimore, Maryland; brother-in-law James Polito of Melrose, Massachusetts; nephew Christian Polito and niece Francesca Polito of Herndon, Virginia, and by her many friends.
Lisa was a woman of strong Catholic faith; she touched the lives of countless co-workers and friends and was truly beloved by all.
Wednesday, December 28, 2016
Madeleine A. “Queenie” O’Connell Mraz of Watertown Connecticut, a former Westport resident, died Dec. 23 at Masonicare in Newtown. She was 92.
She was born Sept. 2, 1924 in Bridgeport to Dr. John G. O’Connell and Madeleine A. Barwin O’Connell. She was a 1941 graduate of Bassick High School and received an Associate’s Degree from Weylister Secretarial Junior College, both in Bridgeport.
During World War II, she worked for Sikorsky Aircraft, Stratford, helping to make the famous Corsair airplanes. She was proud that due to her petite stature she was one of the few small enough to fit in the nosecone to work on the aircraft.
On Dec. 4, 1948, she married William W. Mraz, who predeceased her in 2004. They moved to Westport in 1956 and lived and raised their family here until 1981 when they moved to Woodbury and later to Watertown where they resided since 1985.
Tuesday, December 27, 2016
Richard Pustari of Westport died Dec. 13 at home. He was 83.
The husband of the late Barbara (Britto) Pustari, he was born in Stamford on Dec. 9, 1933 and was the son of the late Frank and Bertha (Sterc) Pustari. He worked for SNET as a technician for many years and in his later years he drove for Enterprise for enjoyment. He was an avid golfer and loved animals.
Survivors include two sons: Rit Pustari of Stratford, Bob Pustari of Norwalk, two daughters: Vickie Pastuszak of Delray Beach, Florida, Debbie Pustari of Denver, Colorado, one brother: William Pustari and his wife Barbara of New Canaan, one sister: Doris Macari of Norwalk, four grandchildren, two great-grandchildren, one nephew and two nieces.
All services were private.
Monday, December 26, 2016
Charles “Charly” Sanford Friedson of Denver, Colorado, a former Westport resident, died Dec. 19 of a heart attack. He was 55.
He grew up in Westport where members of the Friedson family were longtime residents. They owned Economy Foods and Economy Liquors on Main Street from the 1930s through early 1960s, and The Tack Room from 1963 through 2003, and now online. His grandparents owned the Music Room.
He graduated from Staples High School in 1978 and later joined the military, studying German and Spanish at the Defense Language Institute.
From 1981 to 1983, he served as a U.S. Army strategic debriefer for U.S. Army Intelligence in the Munich, Germany area.
Wednesday, December 21, 2016
Patrick J. Dinley of Delray Beach, Florida, a former Westport resident, died Dec. 10 at home following a two-year battle with cancer. He was 76.
He was born March 17, 1940, in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, the son of the late Kathryn Opal (Henderson) and Lawrence Jerome Dinley. An only child, he grew up in Ellwood City, Pennsylania, and graduated from Lincoln High School in 1958.
After four years at The Pennsylvania State University in University Park, Pennsylvania, he graduated in 1962 with a Bachelor of Science in business administration.
Positions at Xerox and Thompson Imperial followed, but he began a 40-year career in the small appliance business when he took the role of sales associate for General Electric in 1966.
Tuesday, December 20, 2016
Janice S. Lamartine of Weston died Dec. 18 after a 10-year battle with multiple cancers. She was 80.
She was the wife of Joseph T. Lamartine, deceased and resided in Westport and Weston for more than 40 years.
She is survived by her daughters, Janice Rose Lamartine and Jose Arreguin, of Lake in the Hills, Illinois, and Stephanie Schwartz and David Schwartz, of Weston; also by grandchildren Jason Schwartz and Elaine Fisher and Andrew Schwartz. and great-grandaughter Amelia Schwartz.
The family will receive friends Wednesday, Dec. 28, from 4 to 8 PM at the Harding Funeral Home, 210 Post Road East. A mass will be held on Thursday, Dec. 29 at 10 a.m. at Saint. Luke Church in Westport.
Woodrow “Woody” Wilson Gorbach of South Palm Beach, Florida, a former Westport resident, died Oct. 31 after a brief illness. He was 92.
A member of the South Palm Beach City Council, he was still working as a real estate broker two weeks prior to his death, and had a closing a week before he was hospitalized.
He was born to Lena and Abraham Gorbach on March 1, 1924 in New Britain, Connecticut. He was the youngest of six children: Jeanette, Gertrude, Irving, Elaine and Rita were his siblings.
He was a graduate of Castle Heights Military Academy, went to college at Virginia Tech and graduated from the University of Bridgeport. At the age of 19, Woody entered the armed forces feeling a sense of duty and obligation to his country.