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Wednesday, April 04, 2012
Gavin Anderson: No ‘Amazing Grace’ at His Service
Scores of persons attended a memorial service today at Westport’s Christ & Holy Trinity Church for R. Gavin S. Anderson, the former Westport selectman and Board of Finance member who died March 26 at the age of 74. Dewey Loselle, a good friend, told the mourners that Anderson had planned every aspect of the service. “Gavin even gave instructions for the bagpiper,” he said. “‘Amazing Grace’ is not to be played as he considered it a bastardized song, not fitting to the pipes.” (CLICK TO ENLARGE) Helen Klisser During for WestportNow.com
‘Even in Death You Managed to Set a High Bar’
A memorial service for R. Gavin S. Anderson, the former Westport selectman and Board of Finance member, was held today at Westport’s Christ & Holy Trinity Church. Close friend Dewey Loselle said Anderson, who died March 26 at age 74 after a long illness, had meticulously planned the service. “You see, every piece of music you are hearing, every poem, every hym, every reading was carefully picked out by Gavin,” Loselle said. “It was his last gift to us.” Addressing his friend, Loselle said: “Even in death, you still managed to set a high bar of expectations, my friend, so I hope you’ll agree with the job we’re doing so far.” (CLICK TO ENLARGE) Helen Klisser During for WestportNow.com
Sunday, April 01, 2012
Dori Anne Bechtold, 62
Dori Anne Bechtold of Weston, formerly of Westport, died March 30 in St. Vincent’s Medical Center, Bridgeport. She was 62.
Dori Anne Bechtold: former Westporter. Contributed photo
Born and raised in Freeport, N.Y., she was the daughter of the late Edward and Edna Bedell Bechtold. Growing up on the water in Long Island nurtured what would be a lifelong love of water activities that included beach visits and lap swimming at the Westport Weston Family Y. She also enjoyed tending to her home and garden. She found great satisfaction in helping others.
Working in sales for Cuthberson Imports for many years, she changed her career to become a certified nurse’s aid, and cared for many clients with her private practice. She truly loved her family and friends and possessed a gift for making those in her life feel uniquely special. She will be deeply missed by her family, friends, and the many individuals whom she so positively touched.
She is survived by her sister, Edwinna Nault, of Cape Canaveral, Fla.; her brother, Kimball Bechtold, and his wife, Joan, of Southport; her niece and nephews, Tracy Buck, of Rockledge, Fla., Scott Nault, of Merritt Island, Fla., Justin Bechtold, of Black Rock, Gavin Bechtold, of San Diego, Calif.; grandniece and grandnephews, Heather and Devyn Nault, Eric Nault; longtime devoted friend, Patricia Giannini, of Weston.
Saturday, March 31, 2012
Mary McFeely, 74
Mary McFeely of Westport died March 30 at Yale-New Haven Hospital. She was 74.
Born in Buenos Aires, Argentina, the daughter of Henry and Cynthia (Hope) Roberts, she was the wife of Jim F. McFeely for 47 years. A devoted and faithful woman, she enjoyed knitting, painting, playing piano and baking cakes for special occasions. She was well-known around Westport as she would walk to the local shops.
In addition to her husband, she is survived by her four children; Helen Dilworth and her husband Mike of Easton, Madeleine McFeely of Norwalk, Friar Jude Mary of the Precious Blood, Fl, of Griswold, and Mary McFeely of Westport and Buenos Aires, eight grandchildren: Monica, Michael, Francis, John, Jane, Mary, Chiara and Colette Dilworth, as well as her siblings; Libby Augspauch, John Roberts and Cynthia Seiguer all of Argentina, and brother Edward Roberts of New Hampshire. She was predeceased by her brother Henry Roberts.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 1 p.m. on Tuesday, April 3 at Assumption Church, Westport, with burial to follow at Assumption Cemetery, Greens Farms.
Restaurateur ‘Junior’ Bieling, 80
Native Westporter John M. Bieling Jr., a.k.a. Junior, a plain spoken, garrulous grill man who kept memories of old Westport alive to all who came to Jr.‘s Hot Dog Stand on Riverside Avenue, died Friday at Bridgeport Hospital. He was 80.
The Sportsmen of Westport in 2005 honored John M. Bieling, Jr., better known as “Junior,” with the William A. Krause Humanitarian Award, named for the group’s late president. Presenting him with the award were state Sen. Robert Duff (l) and his wife Tracy, Krause’s daughter. (CLICK TO ENLARGE) WestportNow.com photo
Beiling, a Staples High School graduate and a lifelong school sports booster, opened the stand, actually a riverfront sit down restaurant with counter seats and tables, in 1976 with his late wife Carol Digisi Bieling, a Westport teacher.
Prior to opening the restaurant, Bieling, a Korean War veteran, tended bar at Joseph J. Clinton VFW Post down the road. Before that stint, he owned and operated The Jockey Club, a restaurant and bar in Saugatuck.
In 2004, the couple sold the restaurant to Jeff Arciola, a Johnson and Wales graduate, who remodeled the interior and revamped the menu from mostly burgers and hot dogs to offer more salads and healthier fare.
Harriet L. Hodish, 84
Harriet L. Hodish, wife of Hyman Hodish of Westport, died March 30 at Notre Dame Convalescent Home in Norwalk. She was 84.
Born April 13, 1927 in Stamford, she was the daughter of the late Minna and Louis Levenson. In addition to her husband, Hyman, she is survived by her son Michael Hodish.
Funeral Services will be held on Sunday, April 1, at 11 a.m. in the Collins Funeral Home, 92 East Ave., Norwalk. Burial will follow in Beth El Memorial Park, Richards Avenue, Norwalk. Shiva will be observed at the home of Hyman Hodish from 2 p.m. on Sunday until Thursday evening. Minyan will gather at 7:30 p.m. each evening.
In lieu of flowers memorial donations may be made to Congregation Beth El, 109 East Ave., Norwalk, CT 06851, or to the Alzheimer’s Association 2075 Silas Deane Highway, Suite 100, Rocky Hill, CT 06067.
William A. Romano, 83
William A. Romano, a Staples High School graduate, died Feb. 17 at Sun City Hospice House, Ruskin, Fla. after a brief illness. He was 83.
He was born on July 17, 1928 in Norwalk and attended Staples High School in Westport. He served in the U.S. Army as PFC during the Korean War from 1949-1951 and then went on to become a partner/owner of L & L Air Conditioning and Heating of Norwalk until his retirement to Ruskin.
He was an avid golfer and loved race horses. He will be remembered for his generosity and kindness.
He is survived by his daughter, Lori Romano, his step-son Bruce Laurance of St. Petersburg, Fla., his brother, Richard Romano of Norwalk, and his life partner, Jeanne Carter of Ruskin. He was preceded in death by his wife Freda (Rosenbloom) Romano and his parents, William and Mary Romano. Services will be private.
Friday, March 30, 2012
Robert Gavin Stewart Anderson, 74
Robert Gavin Stewart Anderson of Westport, husband of Kendall Gardiner, died March 26. He was 74.
Born in England to the late George and Isabel Anderson, he was a veteran of the British Royal Navy having served four years on active duty and seven years in the reserves. Prior to his retirement, he was a senior executive for Colgate Palmolive where he lived in several different countries around the world. He was a member of the Foreign Trade Council, the U.S./South African Business Council which he helped create, and the Council on Economic Priorities.
He was most recently a selectman on the Board of Selectman for the Town of Westport. He also served on the Westport Representative Town Meeting, the Board of Finance for seven years, a chair and member of the Selectman’s Maintenance Study Committee, the Saugatuck River Watershed Partnership, and the Sherwood Mill Pond Committee. He was also an active member of the Westport Sunrise Rotary Club.
He was the father of four children, Heather Dubrosky and Kirstin O’Gorman, both of Fairfield, Amanda Matiello of Virginia, and Jay Anderson of Florida. He is also survived by two sisters, Juliet Hubbard and Rosaland Wolfes, both of England, and seven grandchildren, Ethan Dubrosky, Luke and Declan O’Gorman, Sophia Dubrosky, Sara and Dillon Matiello and Nicholas Anderson.
Thursday, March 29, 2012
Artist Recalls Hilton Kramer as ‘Very Kind’
By James Lomuscio
As international obituaries painted the legendary Hilton Kramer as a harsh, poison pen critic who could send shivers through the art world, even shutter galleries, one local artist recalled the former Westporter who died at 84 from heart failure in Maine Tuesday as “very kind and inspirational.”
Hilton Kramer: art critic lived in Westport 34 years. File photo
“Everybody has a different opinion of him, but we loved him,” said Ann Chernow who with her late husband Burt Chernow, an art historian, were close friends of Kramer and his wife Esta. “He was very different from what people thought of him as a critic, and he was always very kind to us.”
Kramer has been described as a no nonsense, acerbic critic who embraced modernism while deriding postmodernism, pop art and conceptual art during his tenure at The New York Times from 1965 to 1982.
According to The Times, he once called postmodernism “a revolt against the basic traditions of Western civilization.”
Tuesday, March 27, 2012
Mark G. Channing, 86
Mark G. Channing of Orlando, Fla., a former Westport resident as well as resident of Marblehead, Mass., died Feb. 29 at the Meadows in North Andover, Mass. He was 86.
He was born July 5, 1925 in Berlin, Germany, son of Jacob and Manya Baum and stepson of Jack Goldberg.
He is survived by his daughters, Candace Channing and her husband Salvatore LaRusso of Fairfield, Stacey Channing and her husband Robert Portney of Andover, Mass.; and his four granddaughters, Lindsay LaRusso and her husband Lucas DeDeus, Lauren LaRusso, Chelsea Portney and Lisa Portney.
An immigrant who fled from Germany to arrive in the United States after two years in Cuba, he and his family came through Ellis Island and settled in New York City. On his 18th birthday, he joined the U.S. Army and the next two years found him in Europe in some of the heaviest fighting and bloodiest battles of World War II. A recipient of three Purple Hearts and a Victory Medal, he fought in Normandy on D-Day.
Richard H. Wilson, 59
Richard H. Wilson of Sandy Hook (formerly of Fairfield), a former employee of Brooks Community Newspapers in Westport, died Feb. 22. He was 59.
A graduate of Fairfield Country Day School, he attended Tabor Academy in Marion, Mass., the King School in Stamford as well as Roger Ludlowe High School. Upon graduation from New England College he pursued a career in photography.
He engaged in both studio work and freelance event projects. Later he was employed at Brooks Community Newspapers in Westport.
A lifelong sailor, he was an avid participant in yacht racing. A member of Fayerweather Yacht Club, he raced his 38-foot yawl, ARTEMIS. More often he crewed on numerous other racing yachts.
John A. Hojdich, 94
John A. Hojdich of Trumbull, a longtime butcher at Westport’s Westfair Market, died March 23 at Bridgeport Health Care. He was 94.
He was born in Bridgeport to the late Paul and Julia (Zubricsky) Hojdich and was a longtime Trumbull resident. He was employed many years as a butcher at Westfair Market in Westport.
He was a World War II Army veteran, He was also an usher at the 4 p.m. mass at St. Catherine of Siena for many years, where he greeted everyone with a smile and a piece of candy.
He is survived by his wife of 70 years, Wanda Piurek Hojdich of Trumbull; one son Ronald Hojdich and his wife, Charlotte of Stratford; two granddaughters Laurie Hojdich and Julie Press and her husband Jeffrey of New York; and several nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his sister Mary Keller and two brothers Frank and Paul.
Monday, March 26, 2012
Selectman Gavin Anderson, 74
By James Lomuscio
UPDATE (adds services) Westporter R. Gavin S. Anderson, a stalwart Republican who served on the Board of Finance for seven years and later as selectman before resigning in 2010 for health reasons, died early today at St. Vincent’s Hospital in Bridgeport after being ill for some time. He was 74.
R. Gavin S. Anderson: had been receiving dialysis treatment. WN file photo
A message relayed to friends said he died at about 12:30 a.m. and quoted wife Kendall Gardiner as saying: ““My sweet Prince, my beloved Gavin, slipped from my arms into the arms of the Angels and is with our heavenly Father”.
A British subject who later became an American citizen, moving with his wife to Westport in 1977, Anderson had been receiving palliative care at St. Vincent’s. The palliative care came after more than two years of various treatment protocols, such as dialysis, had been suspended so he could rest comfortably, said the Rev. John H. Branson, Rector at Christ & Holy Trinity Church where Anderson was a parishioner.
“Where we have been his drivers to and from Fairfield for his dialysis treatments, it is now time for us with prayer and gratitude to give him back to God from whence he came,” Branson wrote in an email to friends as Anderson’s death was imminent. “He has relished your company and companionship on those journeys to and from dialysis, treasuring the opportunity to share stories, a bit of history, laughter and wisdom with each of you.”
Saturday, March 24, 2012
Elizabeth Christine (Horn) Abbott, 86
Elizabeth Christine (Horn) Abbott, a former teacher at Westport’s Bedford Junior High School, died March 23 in Belfast, Maine. She was 86.
Elizabeth Abbott: taught at Bedford Junior High. Contributed photo
She was born Aug. 3, 1925 in Bridgeport to Julius Henry and Christine Bessie (Howe) Horn. The family moved to Stratford in 1926, and she graduated from Stratford High in 1943. She graduated from the University of Connecticut with a degree in education.
After teaching in Stratford, she continued at Bedford Junior High in Westport during which time she earned her Master of Arts degree at the University of Bridgeport and a fellowship at Yale University.
In 1956, she married William Abbott of Verona, Maine settling in Belfast. She was a member of First Church, UCC, Belfast, serving on numerous committees, was a member of Northport Golf Club, was on the board of the Rainbow Girls, the Waldo Hospital Aid, Sweetser Board, American Red Cross, a volunteer at Penobscot Marine Museum and a longtime member of the P.E.O. Sisterhood.
Friday, March 23, 2012
Joseph Kohout, 91
Joseph Kohout, co-founder of Quigley and Kohout Electric in Westport in the 1950s, died March 18 at home in Dummerston, Vt. He was 91.
The youngest of four children of George Kohout and Mary Ellen McNamara, he was born Nov. 14, 1920 and was educated in New York City.
In 1943, he joined the Merchant Marines and served as a purser and pharmacist mate until the war’s end. He shipped out several times—to South America, the South Pacific and the North Atlantic and shared lively stories of the people and experiences he had during his time at sea.
After the war, he owned and operated a Sunoco station in Brooklyn, N.Y. with a partner, Buddy Simpson. It was at this time that he met Helen Griffin, a secretary for UNICEF at the United Nations.